Tricks & Discipline
Tricks & Discipline
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.
—Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
I’m paying close attention to the change of seasons, because I need a change to move me forward, and I’ll take anything I can get. Today I need to end a season of time wasting, fear, obsessive blog-reading, and totally non-essential Wikipedia research. First step: I met a friend at a coffee shop. I left the house a mess, choosing to believe that writing is, for this morning, more important than cleaning up toys. Writing is a mind game, and I’m not above some tricks to get me out of this terrible stuck place I’ve been for about six weeks.
As I write I’m sitting with my friend Margaret, a screenwriter. We’re not talking, mostly, but we’re doing the most important work one artist can do for another: we’re keeping each other in the chair and off the internet. I can keep working if she can, and she can keep working if I can. Some days it all comes down to tricks and discipline.
Learn your tricks, find a friend, leave the dirty dishes in the sink for a while. Do the work, learn the skills, and make art, because of what the act of creation will create in you.
WE CAN help each other in so many ways—sometimes even just by sitting together. Who are the people in your life who help you get unstuck?
