Gossip

Gossip

My Question for God

How can I begin to reverse the damage done by gossip?

A Moment with God

Gossip separates the best of friends.

Proverbs 16:28

Rumors are dainty morsels that sink deep into one’s heart.

Proverbs 18:8

A gossip goes around telling secrets, so don’t hang around with chatterers.

Proverbs 20:19

Fire goes out without wood, and quarrels disappear when gossip stops.

Proverbs 26:20

It’s fun to gossip because it makes us feel as if we’re letting others in on our little secrets. The Bible characterizes bits of gossip as “dainty morsels.” The problem is, gossip is based on rumors, not facts, and gossip is often meant to damage another’s reputation, not build it up. Everyone loves to be in on the latest news, but the people with whom you gossip are probably also gossiping about you. Gossip separates friends, reveals people’s secrets, and causes much hurt. Gossip puts you in the position of judging others. In a court of law, rumors and opinions are not allowed because they might unjustly sway the opinion of the jury. So it is when you turn your bedroom or kitchen into a courtroom where you sit as judge and allow rumor and opinion to color and often damage the reputation of others who have no chance to defend themselves. You can make gossip stop by changing the subject or by saying something kind about the person being gossiped about. When you don’t add fuel, the fire will go out. Your kind words may allow God’s grace to break through to those around you and may even reach the ears of those you defend.

Divine Promise

The Scriptures say, “If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies.”

1 Peter 3:10