Freedom In Truth

Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.

“Can we talk for a minute?” a voice called out. I paused, fingers still hovering over the light switch I’d been about to shut off. For a moment, I thought longingly of the warm bed and cozy book I’d been headed toward, but as I turned around and noticed the tension on her face, I dredged up a smile instead.

“Sure,” I said, moving toward the dishes on the counter. As she settled into a chair and I began to fill the sink with hot water, I listened as hurt poured out of my loved one. She felt overlooked, ignored, unwanted. She questioned motives—including mine—and revealed the pain she’d been holding on to.

I felt a mix of sadness and concern, but as she wound down and I was able to respond, I was also glad for the opportunity to set the record straight. That worst-case scenario she’d been envisioning? It wasn’t true. She was cared for, loved, wanted. Though we differed in opinion on a few issues, I always valued her viewpoint and genuinely looked forward to our time together. So why had she believed the worst and suffered needless harm? My spirit grieved with her over the trust that had been damaged, and I apologized for the unintentional hurt I’d caused.

The conversation was painful. But by the time we said good night a couple of hours later, we both felt better. And I was grateful for the opportunity I’d had to set things right.

Scripture has many references to the truth, reminding us that it sets us free, that hidden things will always come to light, and that Jesus himself is truth. Truth is a hallmark of our faith, yet our actions are often the bellwethers that reveal what we believe to be true. My nighttime conversation had revealed how someone I loved was writing a narrative in her mind that wasn’t true, and our honest conversation offered a way to rewrite that narrative. Our pain-filled discussion was the first step toward composing a new story filled with forgiveness and hope for a better tomorrow.

Kristin

Today’s Act of Gratitude

Are you harboring anger or pain toward someone else? Consider whether a truthful conversation would be beneficial.